Today is our 5th wedding anniversary and a decade of knowing my husband :D. I must say they have been the most happy fulfilling and educative years of my life.
When I look back today, this is the best turn a friendship could take. I am glad that even today we are friends first and friends last. That keeps the clock ticking and the spark alive :D
The other day, as usual I was a little stressed or lets say upset (something if you know me is not rare), as usual when I am at my wits end I seek Nitesh's help :)...but this time while I was telling him all I had in my mind..I slowly felt my head clear..I was able to see things on my own, I did not need him to tell me things, all I needed was him to listen. I needed him to listen because he was the only person whom I could tell all I wanted, rather whom I cared to tell. He was the one person whom I wanted to give all my justifications who had to understand me completely ( there was not alternative to that ). I wanted to be transparent for him...the rest really does not or should not matter. In short after 5 years of being married I understood marriage all over again. Some may call it faith...some may call it love, some understanding...but I today understand that it is transparency.
